Melange: The Last Journey!!!!

Melange: The Last Journey!!!!: In the silent full moon night  Me the lone wanderer in the boat across the holy Ganges The deep silence of the night is broken someti...

The Last Journey!!!!

In the silent full moon night 

Me the lone wanderer in the boat across the holy Ganges

The deep silence of the night is broken sometimes by the roar of the gushing water,

Or the gentle humming of the boatman

This is the journey I always wanted to embark

Traversing across the holy river in the midnight silence

The flares of the burning pyres on the other side of the bank

Offers a mesmerizing sight

As the boat touches the burning ghats

Fires and smell of death surrounding the air
Enticing me into their arms

A thin line dividing life and death

This is the ultimate journey which i always wanted to embark

In the silent full moon  night...

Monsoon Magic!!!

The tapping sound of the rains on the window panes fills me with fun-filled joy

The thundering clouds, the lightening streaks and the downpour cannot hold me indoors

I go out into the streets and become a child again

Jumping in the puddles of water and see the water splash

Remembering the childhood days of making paper boats

And watching them steer their way through the water filled streets

Licking the rain drops falling on my face

Forgetting the woes of daily lives, feeling carefree like a bird

Letting oneself go and enjoying the little pleasures of life

As life is not about surviving the struggle of existence, but

Learning how to dance in the rain… 

Little Things which makes us happy !!!!

Hello Friends,

This is my first blog and in the first blog I attempt to write on a subject which is dear to me and all of us. Happiness----Basically happiness is being in the present self, which can be experienced here and now at this moment.  Having said that, what I have found out happiness comes from small things, experiencing the little pleasures of life, which gives the utmost bliss, joy and the high, which can just felt but not be explained in words. So for my first blog, I am writing on the things which I do or would love to do, taking my happiness frequency to higher levels. These prove to be excellent stress busters too. So here my list goes:

1. Connect with Self- Being with oneself, without the TV, mobile phones, just you and yourself. Meditate, go for walks in nature. Every day spend around half to one hour doing things you love, be it reading, listening to music, cooking, gardening, anything you love. I usually keep one hour before going to sleep as my “Me” time and believe me it refreshes me from all the tensions and stress of a hectic work schedule.

2. Spend time in Nature- Yes, going out in the nature, be it walks in the woods, hiking a mountain, sitting on the shore listening to the sounds of waves of the sea or ocean or the waves of the river. Some of us like me are not so lucky to stay close to nature, but in urban jungles. However, we have our local neighbourhood parks where we all go for morning and evening walks. Next time when you are there for the morning walks, just listen to the chirping of the birds, observe the trees and flowers, listen to the gentle breeze, it will have a soothing effect on you. On my drive back to home from work, there is a two minute stretch at the India Gate, where the birds go back to their homes, and the chirping of thousands of birds takes me an altogether different plane.

3. Make new friends and connect with the old – Nothing can be more refreshing than spending quality time with good friends. Unfortunately, in our busy world, often our old friends get apart due to the realms of physical distance. We should not hesitate to make new friends. For years, I had this hesitation or blockage to meet new people and due to this I used to be bored sitting at home. But this year, I decided to break this barrier of mine and I really congratulate myself for making this decision. And whenever you find the opportunity to connect with your old friends, avail it. Don’t think of time, work or anything, make it happen. It is so much fun to have those rounds of tea/snacks and gossips of good old golden days.

4. Try out new things – You have one life and one should experience everything that life offers. Pursue a new hobby like learning any instrumental music, taking up salsa or tango classes; learn Qui Gong, yoga etc. Indulge in outdoor and adventurous activities like snorkelling, diving, sky diving and many others. For the less adventurous ones, go out for an opera, a concert, a theatre shows etc. There are many things out there. Explore is the word.

5. Travel to places in the world – Being a travel enthusiast, this one tops my list so much so that I want to see the whole world. I have made a resolution that I will visit at least one foreign land in a year and by God’s grace, for the past three years i have succeeded in this pursuit of mine. And when you travel, don’t be the touristy kinds, be with the locals, stay like the locals and try out the local cuisines.

6. Get wet in the rains – Sounds crazy, but don’t you remember we used to get drenched when we were young. Why not revisit our younger days and cherish those memories again. And if you are afraid of falling sick, you can stand on your window sill and let the rain drops pour on your face and breathe in the smell of wet earth.

7. Pamper Yourself – Make it a weekly, fortnightly or monthly (depending on how much you want to make a dent on the pocket.:)) schedule to make a appointment with the spa and give yourself a relaxing session. You don’t have to wait for the reason or occasion for visiting a spa. Next time you need to life up your spirits, you know where to hit.

8. Hang out with your gal pals – Have an exclusive girls’ day out once in a while, even if you are a wife, a mother, daughter, girl friend, with all responsibilities. Go for a movie, shopping, eating, go for weekend tour, have a blast!!!

9. Volunteer for a social cause - The biggest form of joy comes from giving. Donating for a cause which is dear to your heart either financially or your time often makes us forget our pain and sorrows.

10. Finally, last but not the least, love yourself, be happy in the present moment, enjoy the now, don’t worry about the future. One can be happy even without doing any of the above things or can be unhappy after doing all these and more. Happiness lies within, which can be enhanced by the externalities, but one should be happy from inner self to enjoy the happiness of the outer world.

I would like to acknowledge my friend and guide Kapilji for telling me that "Happiness is basically an attitude and it lies within."..